Ep 81. Confessions Of A Dominatrix w/ Fleur Driver

This episode features an interview with Mistress Fleur Driver, a professional dominatrix and BDSM practitioner with over a decade of experience. Fleur details her journey into the sex work industry, starting as an escort and eventually specializing in BDSM after discovering her natural inclination towards dominance and the unique forms of expression within the kink community. She emphasizes the importance of immersive and intentional experiences for her clients, who come from diverse backgrounds and motivations, ranging from exploring fantasies to working through personal issues. Fleur discusses her meticulous approach to scene crafting, prioritizing trust, communication through safe words and signal systems, and understanding client boundaries and triggers. She also touches upon the potential for healing and transformation within BDSM practices.

Fleur further elaborates on various aspects of her work, including the demographics and common themes among her clientele, her creative collaboration with her husband for imagery and branding, and the crucial role of aftercare and mental well-being for both herself and her clients. She shares her perspective on the impact of the internet on sex work, advocating for the decriminalization of sex work for safety and worker rights based on her experiences in New Zealand. Looking to the future, Fleur envisions expanding her practice with a larger, aesthetically focused space. She also highlights her commitment to inclusivity by offering discounts to FLINTA individuals and other sex workers.